Who do you want to believe?
Monday came a report from the very reliable Dave McMenamin at ESPNLosAngeles.com that in his exit interview Dwight Howard expressed frustration with coach Mike D’Antoni to GM Mitch Kupchak. Which isn’t hard to believe if you watched the Lakers at all this year.
Kupchak said he didn’t want any D’Antoni talk from Dwight anyway given Mitch’s insistence that Lakers won’t have any player dictate the coaching situation.
“To be honest with you, I wouldn’t let it go there anyway,” he said…. “I’m not saying they don’t have differences like with any coach or any player. I don’t think it’s anything that goes beyond.”
So what is reality here?
Let’s start here — there were only two people in the room. One of them is the tight-lipped Lakers GM who is a very good soldier, a guy who is old school and would not leak a private conversation, especially one that called into question the team’s coach. The other is the guy whose agent and people were all kinds of leaky during the Orlando exit debacle, to the point of harming the player’s reputation.
I don’t know who McMenamin’s sources were, but decide for yourself which side you think might have been leaking info here.
Then look at the complaint itself? From the original report, “the center felt marginalized as the coach looked to Bryant and Steve for leadership and suggestions and discounted Howard’s voice”
It’s not Xs and Os, it’s not touches in the post or system stuff, it’s not being listened to. It’s not feeling respected like the other veteran leaders of the team. This seems to be a theme from Howard — he is about to go through free agency where it’s not about the money (the Lakers win that, they can offer larger raises and one more guaranteed year) it’s about respect and feeling wanted. Howard wants to be recruited, wants teams — including the Lakers — to tell him how much they want and needed him.
So could you see a leak aimed at D’Antoni trying to get Howard in the conversation?
It’s really much more simple than that for Howard if he stays in L.A. — with Kobe Bryant out at the start of season Howard can grabs the reins of the team, he can impose his will and be the leader. But you do that on the court by both your play and demeanor — dominate, then be serious about your craft publically when the time calls for it. That’s how you get the respect of everyone and get your voice heard.